Skip to content

The Sessions

Ben LewinFilm2012United States

A man confined to an iron lung by polio hires a professional sex surrogate, with the counsel of his priest, to experience physical intimacy for the first time.

This film rebukes and corrects countless brainless and cheap sex scenes in other movies.
Roger Ebert, RogerEbert.com, 2012

Ben Lewin's film follows Mark O'Brien, a Berkeley poet and journalist who has lived much of his life inside an iron lung following childhood polio. In his late thirties, and with the quiet encouragement of his parish priest, he decides to pursue sexual experience and engages a sex surrogate who agrees to a limited number of meetings.

Serious critics responded to the film's candour and its refusal of sentimentality around sex and the body. John Hawkes plays O'Brien almost entirely through face and voice, his body held still, and the restraint gives the comedy and the longing real weight. Helen Hunt, as the surrogate, meets him with a composure that keeps the encounters honest rather than coy.

For a psychodynamic clinician, the film holds steady attention on disability and desire, on the shame that gathers around a body medicalised since childhood, and on intimacy approached in careful, negotiated stages. It is attentive to how the priest, the attendants and the surrogate each occupy different positions in O'Brien's inner life, and to what it can cost to ask for help.

Director

Ben Lewin

Details

Released
2012
Runtime
95 min
Country
United States
Language
English
Kind
Film
Awards
Sundance Audience Award (U.S. Dramatic) 2012 won; Sundance Special Jury Prize for Ensemble Acting 2012 won; Academy Award Best Supporting Actress 2013 nominated (Helen Hunt)
desiretransgressionfor therapists and clients

Vestibola does not host or stream anything listed here and takes no fee. Links go to the film's own page on IMDb, or to the service that carries it.